Friday Fragments

I am spending my Friday reading Friday Fragments. :) Please Join Mrs.4444 at Half Past Kissin' Time and share your Friday highlights.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME! Yep! Today is my birthday!!! Woo Hoo!

This week has been a week of quotes from my dear sweet innocent oldest son. Here are the snippets:

B (youngest son): Dad, do you cry? I have never seen you cry.
Dad: I'm tough!
C (oldest son): No. It isn't because he is tough, B. It's because when you turn 42 your tears turn to dust.
Dad's face was baffled. Ha Ha Ha!!!

Conversation Number 2:

C: Mom do we have off for Veterinarian's Day?
Me: Do you mean Veteran's Day?
C: Hold on let me go check.
C: Yes. Yes. Veteran's Day.
Me: Yes. Do you know what a Veteran is?
C: Yes, Vets take care of our pets.

OK.. This is coming from a military family. Ha Ha Ha

I have a dilemma... Is it appropriate to have a baby shower for your third child? I was approached about this the other day and someone complained that I had not done a baby registry yet. Yes, there is a 5 year gap between this baby and my youngest son, and I am having a girl. I don't know??? Is it appropriate???

What is up with all of the Christmas commercials? We just finished Halloween and now I am looking forward to Pumpkin Pie and turkey until I turn on the TV and suddenly I feel like I missed a holiday. Even our local grocery store had a Christmas themed commercial. Really? Already???

Well it is time for me to go sort clothes.... Gotta get rid of the stuff that doesn't fit and hand down the stuff that might fit the smaller one! Everyone have a blessed weekend!!! :)

Military Spouses

I have been doing some reflection over the last week. So many of my dear friends have celebrated R&R (the 2 week break the military gives you when you are deployed to Iraq), and now are sending their loved ones back to war. I see the sadness in their eyes, but the strong stature that they show. It's sad really, and if you are a military spouse, you understand without words even being spoken what turmoil is looming within that person. R&R is the best of times and the worst of times all in a two week period!

So many people don't truly understand the military family. I can't tell you how often I have been told, " Wow! You are such a strong woman." You have NO idea! What I'd really like to do is crawl in a hole, pull the blanket over my head and hit the fast forward button on life when my husband is deployed. (Am I wrong military spouses??? Wouldn't it be nice to have the FF button?) It doesn't happen that way though... There isn't a fast forward button, and I have two (almost 3) little people that I can't let down no matter what. I'm not strong... I just don't have a say per se and I have to do what I have to do to keep my family going. My husband has a duty. He made an oath, and this is what must be done. I married into this life... I may have been naive as to what it was like, but I knew what I was getting into.

So often I have wished that my husband had the 9 to 5 job where he was home every night... home for dinner with the family... home to have breakfast with the kids and I in the morning. I get that sometimes, but often dinner takes a backseat to a long meeting or a range or some other "fun" activity and PT is too early for me ( ha ha ha). I'm not complaining... When my husband isn't overseas, I do see him at night and on most weekends he is home to watch my kids in their sporting events. But there is a vicious cycle... While I enjoy my husband being at home another wife wants to hit the FF button so her husband is home too.

Over the last week, I have sat silently praying. Praying for my sisters.... The ones that are waiting now... Wanting to crawl in the hole and reliving the memories in their minds. They aren't always strong... Perhaps a hand squeeze or a quick hug is what they need to pick them up. It lets them know they aren't "Super Women," but that you are thinking of them. :)